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Small ways to make your partner feel loved
The more love you put into something, the more love you will (hopefully) receive. This also applies to people in happy marriagesand relationships. There are countless ways to show your partner how much you care for them. These acts of love can indicate how supportive you are of each other, and can even further deepen emotional intimacy.Small things lead to big changes in relationships, says relationship expert Andrea Syrtash and author of Hes Just Not Your Type (And Thats a Good Thing), about doing an act of love for your partner. Youll likely be surprised at how effective doing something small is.To protect and strengthen your relationship, our experts offered a few small ways to show your partner that theyre loved.(Also, check out the sex problems marriage counselors hear about all the time.)Image may be NSFW.
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Compliment them
Tell your partner that you think they look hot, smell good, or whatever the case may be. And do so in the moment. You serve as your beloveds best mirror, says Jim Walkup,a licensed marriage counselor and family therapist who practices in New York City and White Plains, New York. Where else will [they] find a sense of someone appreciating [their] essence and lifting it up? Plus, by verbalizing their best qualities, you recommit to whats great about them and the relationship, says Walkup. Youre reminding yourself why you married [them] in the first place. (Psst: here’s how to have a more lustful marriage.)
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Put your phone down
An email, text, or phone call will always need a response. But do your best to give your partner your undivided attention when youre together. Concentrate on your partner during dinner, when youre in the car, on date night. Nothing says youre important to me more than putting boundaries around all of the possible interruptions that impact sharing and being close, says Walkup. (Here’s what you need to know about your phone addiction.)
Make eye contact and focus on the during conversations. It will send the message that youre fully engaged in what [they’re]saying, says Marni Feuerman, a licensed psychotherapist in private practice in Boca Raton, Florida. The message we send to our partners when they talk and we stare at our phones is that the person were emailing or texting with is more important than they are, says Syrtash.
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Impress your partner
Wear that outfit they love or style your hair the way you did when you first met. This shows that you dont take each other for granted, even if youve been together for years. There’s a healthy need to continue to impress each other. And youll feel more alive by taking such measures, says Walkup. (Learn the secret to a successful marriage.)
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Hug them (a lot)
Nothing makes you feel more attached than a hug, say Charles Schmitz and Elizabeth Schmitz (a.k.a. Doctors Schmitz), love and marriage experts and award-winning authors. Instead of giving each other a quick peck on the lips as you venture out for the day, embrace for a bit and let the touching linger. Hugging releases oxytocin in your brain and will make you and your partner feel more connected and attached, says Syrtash. And youll likely not want to let go either. See all the health benefits of hugging.
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Cook their favourite meal
It’s cliche but true: The way to a man or to a woman’s heart is through their stomach. On Sunday morning, surprise them with your homemade pancake recipe that they gush about. Just the fact that you know what [he/she] loves and have put forth the extra effort will earn you mucho brownie points, says Walkup. Make sure you both have the time to savour it and take it in.
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Say thanks for the small stuff
Express your gratitudeeven for something as small as taking out the trash or driving the kids to soccer practice. We often begin to take things for granted or think, He/shes supposed to do that anyway, so why should I thank him/her? says Feuerman. But for the sake of your marriage, its important to say thank youa direct and easy way to convey your appreciation. Never saying thanks will erode at the relationship, says Feuerman.
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Reach out and touch them
Youve seen it in the commercials or the movies. Someone puts their hand on top of someone elses. Their eyes meet and they just seem at peace. Its the power of touch. Touching each other multiple times per day is the norm in successful marriages, says Doctors Schmitz. Touching says, I love you so much I simply must touch you. So reach out and touch [they’re] arm, shoulder, whatever it may be. Learn why getting touchy-feely is good for you.
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Tell them I love you
You can never express these three words enough and few people will tire of hearing them. Say these heartfelt words meaningfully and give your partner your full attention when doing so. Slip in an I love you as you wake up, go to sleep, and in other aspects of your daily life to help build a better relationship, says Walkup. (Here’s how to make your relationship last a lifetime.)
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Leave them little notes
It may be hard to carve out time for even a two-minute conversation if you have busy jobs or kids running afoot. But you can always communicate your desire and appreciation for one another through the handwritten word. Leave them notes on the bathroom mirror, the windshield of their car, in their work bag. Write just about anything from I love you to an inside joke. Any kind of sweet positive message will inspire [them] to continue to make you happy, says Syrtash. Keep the notes genuine to make your partner feel special and loved. (Also, learn how to have a healthy fight with your partner.)
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Spend time together
There’s no substitute for time together, even if you’re just couch surfing. If they’re watching sports, cuddle next to them. If they’re washing the car, bring them out a cold drink, or grab a sponge and lend a hand. Not interested in helping? Stand near and chat while they scrub. It will be nice just to be close together.
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